Here are Liz Ryan's 10 sure signs your boss doesn't respect you ⦠Relevance. 3 years ago. Anonymous: Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote:A good boss wouldnât have done this in a group email setting. 4 months ago. Q: Last Wednesday, my boss accused me of stealing a laptop. There was this popcorn. They all told me that the issues are with him. Favourite answer. Question Details: I work for a big company someone made a Dessert and offered it to my boss i was sitting in the back of the room waiting to clock into work.. My boss said who made this cause i dont want to go missing tomorrow cause i know alot of people here dont like me as he pointed at me.. she's my best friend and i don't want to loose her!! Read between the lines She's telling you to quit. True, but the fact of the matter is that OP's boss sent the critical email. Possibly, an investigation could be launched and depositions be taken to discover if indeed there was evidence of your making such remarks. And Iâve kept that promise. Four years ago, my husband and I went to Cuba to get married. He told me to see a hypnotist to sort myself out, and stupidly I did. You need to say to yourself, "I know I didn't do this. Can My boss accuse me of doing something i didn't do? OP, as much as it sucks, this is a great time to manage up. Ask other people who know you and the person making the accusations about their perspectives on the accusation. Most private employers may terminate at will. There are no cameras in the office (I wish there were) and I have no intentions to steal $2 candy. Answer Save. My family believe me my two nieces aged 18 months and 8 years old was with me on the same evening.To put something on facebook that was blown out of portion i dont understand why my sister friend didnt ring me or come to my flat and have a women chat i know for a fact that i didnt do anything wrong as such all i did was to ask a 9 year old girl to take a look at something for me which ⦠Lawyer's Assistant: Because employment law varies from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in? Unfortunately, unless you are a government employee or are a union member in the private sector, employers have no legal obligation to provide due process or have just cause to terminate. âBlameâ is a troubling word. Reply to "Boss accused me of something I didnât do" Subject: Message body. My boss is accusing me of things I didn't do? Doesn't sound very strange huh? 2. He didnât believe me. I'm suspending you for having pornographic material on your work computer, don't give me the BS that you didn't download it, because you did." Your husband might accuse you of cheating and lying simply because heâs cheating and lying to you. But the truth is that we often tend to project onto others what we are doing ourselves. I'm Also Being Accused Of Something I Didn't Do by: Anonymous I have just come out of a relationship with a man who also accused me of looking at other men. So there was an open bag of chocolate chips in the office where everyone has to cash in before starting the day. In the meantime, get together the evidence that will prove you didn't do what you are accused of - emails, written documents, and find people who will be able to back up your story. This already caused a huge stir in my family and they kept insisting moving in with Luca was a mistake even though he wouldnât ask me for money every single time I asked him if he could watch our son for five seconds but since we kept using my sister as a nanny temporarily, they didnât complain too much. Get a diary and start recording everything they accuse you of. Your first instinct may be defensive posturing and anger. Probably you can do little more than to have careful documentation and to keep your boss informed. Well the popcorn seems to be missing and we have no idea where the hell it went. Record the dates, times, what they accused you of and what you were actually doing at that time during your work day. 4 months ago. Lawyer's Assistant: Is the employment agreement "at will," union, full time or part time? If your employer accuses you of stealing from the company, it can come as a major shock. If you walk into the world, and you're hanging your head, and you kind of don't want to look anybody in the eye, and you're shameful, then people will treat you that way. What Can I Do if My Employer Wrongfully Accuses Me of Theft?. It was just the two of us, and we had a great time. 4 months ago. Then my buddy's left after an hour or so. Certain types of misconduct are classed as 'gross misconduct'. Being accused of something you didnât do is one of the most terrible and most aggravating situations you can possibly encounter. Being accused of lying by your boss can create a highly inflammatory situation and may lead to a hostile work environment. Subject: Boss accused me of something I didnât do. My boss first accused me of "stealing" from the company then changed the story and said that they purposely "planted" the extra merchandise in my door and that the items never came back. 0 0. The bag is from our store and for whatever reason she's suspecting me. I was questioned over and over again and then terminated for something I didnt do and they told me that I didnt follow procedures when I know I did. she's all mad at me because her boyfriend, my ex in which i was together with him for 3 months, likes me more than her, and she's accusing me of stealing him from her. She had them reattached and while she was recovering My Exâs boyfriend had been either drugging her or something and had been sexually assaulting my daughter. I started to believe that I had something wrong with me as I couldnât see what he was seeing. It was pink elephant popcorn I had a few friends over. Today we disagreed on an issue and she accused me of being RACIST and threatened an EEOC on me. Your response to your boss depends on many factors, including previous working relationships, size and structure of the organization and the accuracy of your boss' accusation. If you didnât do something, calmly say, âI didnât do that.â Your boss might not hear you, but you need to say it. Max Hoopla. 5 Answers. Relevance. He accuses me of the strangest things- one thing I CANâT STAND is to be accused of something I didnât do. If your boss was trying to fire you, you would be fired. Do you have a question? If, following a proper disciplinary procedure, you are found to be Iâm a very laid back person and I seriously never nag and gripe at him. A lot of innocent people admit to doing something they didn't in fact do because they believe their cooperation with law enforcement and prosecutors will be better than trying to maintain their innocence. Conduct (or more accurately, 'misconduct') is one of the potentially fair reasons for dismissal, so accusations of misconduct should not be ignored. I have documental evidence which was sent to me ⦠Hi, My employer is accusing me for something which i didnt do. Is there any way of punishing/prosecuting those who falsely accuse you of a racially discriminatory comment? The police caught this guy on a child porn site and broke the doors down to their house and took all the computers and phones. We walked by this popcorn a few times to grab food and drinks. Favourite answer. When your boss doesn't respect you as a person or a professional, you're spinning your wheels. I know this sounds harsh, and I really hope thatâs not your case. But let me tell you something⦠Sometimes, men tend to accuse their partners only because they feel guilty. Honestly, assess whether you are in any way responsible. the original investigation was flawed and appears to have gone away but the company have since been trying to dig information and now trying to say i didnt fulfil my obligations as a manager but i reported the incidents they are saying to my senior manager who did nothing about it. There is nothing worse than being accused of something you didn't do. I think that, but can't prove, someone has set it up. It suggests only one person is responsible when things go wrong. Consider if the other person is feeling slighted by you, by something youâve said or your role at work or in the family. what shouold i do?? If you ⦠My sister says she saw one of my friends ⦠Life Law #8: You Teach People How to Treat You. Lv 7. My boss is accusing me of something i did not do. You may not recognize something youâve said or done that may have led to the accusation. What should I do? Lv 7. my friend is accusing me of something i didn't even do...? My husband of four years and partner of 11 has told me he no longer trusts me, for absolutely no reason on my part. mtnglo. You need to ask your employer to set out in writing exactly what the accusations against you are. Answer Save. They said she was the boss and she can do what ever.. In my paycheck today, there was a hastily scribbled mention of deducting $13 because the register was short that much over the pay period. Our argument, over email, was her accusing me of two very hurtful things, which I didnât do. Answer Save. However, many people might have contributed to the problem. Be prepared to list the evidence in your favour to your boss, although you don't need to have the people who will back your story present at the meeting. Due to the fact that he kept accusing me even after I told him numerous times that I did not smoke inside, it obviously shows that he does not believe me and these accusations bother me because I am a very honest person. And I will give myself what I wish the community, the authorities, etc., would give me." TedEx. Work . It's ridiculous. an employee stole from him and he believes i also involved. 4 Answers. At some point, your boss should be available to you, even if he is just passing by your desk. I dont have money for a lawyer. Understand false confessions or admissions. Lv 7. My boss accused me of stealing, but I didn't do anything nor has she any proof. If you are being falsely accused of a crime you did not commit, do not fall into this trap and do not admit to anything you didn't do. when they searched the phones and found pictures of my daughter on them sleeping with this guy doing ⦠Iâve heard plenty of men talk about how their wives gripe, moan and nag at them constantly and I swore Iâd never be like that. this? i don't even like him anymore, and i'm just being me!! My boss accused me of taking something I didn't take and yelled at me he ignores my phone calls doesn't speak to me anymore what can I do? I am a devoted mom to 3 and have always been âa good girl,â never into partying and getting drunk. We went to my boss, who basically said we should work it out. No clue if she's trying to fire me. At will and it full time For example, you were accused of stealing or shoplifting inside a store, but then it was found out that you did not do it. She wonât answer my phone calls, and answers messages with curt responses. So. 4 Answers. He said I had to admit what I did, and if I didnât, I had to resign or be fired. (Jacqui isn't my real name, btw). Assess if you did contribute to the problem. My mom is accusing me for something I didn't do? So she told them to terminate me without asking me what happen. I am not her boss, her coworker.She has no documented proof of anything, she just feels that I have excluded her in a past project. I didn't steal any money, and I didn't screw up any transactions, so in no way is the deduction for a short register my fault. Anonymous. 0 0. Then they accused me of doing something that I didn't do to a resident and fired me. I didnât and said so. 'Gross misconduct ' btw ) as a major shock available to you, you 're spinning your.... 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